When the woman is the spouse…
Ever since I started working with entrepreneurs in 2004, I’ve been fascinated by the intricate relationship between the love relationship and business growth. I’ve always observed that they can either fuel one another or fail one another. But it wasn’t until I was in a relationship with a Type A+ driven entrepreneur that I really understood how this felt on the inside- exhilarating and isolating all at the same time. I felt like my identity was attached to him. But he was getting his identity from his business. Which meant the entire stability of our relationship rested on the state of the business.
Then, I learned about the Laws of Interconnectivity and really understood how deeply our business growth is connected to our love relationship. And more important- that our love relationship is fueled by our own personal health and identity. This is where I went wrong in my own relationship- and it’s the cornerstone of my coaching philosophy: it takes two happy, healthy people to create one happy, healthy relationship.
when the woman is the entrepreneur…
We are a new species of woman. A modern breed who are faced with more choices and possibilities than all of our ancestors combined. I believe there has never been a better time to be a woman and watching our peers continually break glass ceilings inspires me to my core. Our expansion is limitless and our expectations are high.
As a result, the one area I continue seeing women struggle is in their personal relationships. As we channel more and more of our masculine energy to succeed in business, it can be hard for our partners to understand where they fit in our lives. At this stage, I see the men shut-down, resigned, and playing small out of fear of making a mistake or being criticized- again. I find the women feeling unmet, disenchanted, and out-of-love for their less ambitious partner.
I pull from the lessons in my first marriage to help these couples understand the infinite power that exists in the balance of masculine and feminine energy. This work reveals the difference between a healthy balance vs. toxic masculine (condescending) and toxic feminine (pushover).
Counseling vs. Coaching?
Counseling is useful for individuals or couples working through healing wounds of the past. Whether it’s wounds from your childhood or resolving past pain in the relationship, counseling is a useful platform to begin the rebuilding process.
However, if you are looking for a resource that is focused on working toward a bigger, shared future, coaching may be a better option. We’ll use your relevant history to identify triggers, but we’ll amplify how you want that history to serve you. When we reach an understanding that everything is happening FOR us (not TO us) we reach a more empowered state to take inspired action.
Do you work with same sex couples?
I’ve only had the pleasure of working with LGBTQ+ women in my coaching groups. Love is love is love is love so regardless of the labels you identify with and who you’ve made a life with, I wish you the happiest, healthiest relationship you can fathom. I would welcome the opportunity to serve you if my beliefs and content feel like a path to relational bliss for you. xo
one on one coaching
My one-on-one personal program is designed to give individuals or couples personal attention as they work toward creating a bigger, shared future. These calls happen via telephone once per week, every week for 12 weeks. (Modifiable if necessary)
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spouse online program
For couples who wish to explore the content at their own pace and in total privacy. My online program is my best content and strategies packaged in bite-size, actionable videos that will help you understand where to start on your search for more purpose and connection. It will reveal where all the dormant connection lies in your relationship.
womens coaching group
This is a community exclusively for women entrepreneurs. My coaching groups strike a perfect balance of business and relationship strategies so we can stay focused on growing our business while we work on empowering our men to be the partner we so desperately desire.
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